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	<title>Comments on: I am a working mother.</title>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
		<link>http://ideallyspeaking.ca/2012/09/i-am-working-mother-html/#comment-156</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2012 18:35:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a stay at home mom and agree that either way you slice it (at home or at work), moms have long days.  I actually find that women are not very judgemental about whether you go back or stay at home and are actually very supportive of my choice and others.  Maybe I just have great friends and family.  But I digress.....As I read your post about collapsing in bed at the end of the day and checking our email/facebook/etc., I realized how nice it is that we can do this from our bed with our smartphones.  Imagine having to sit upright at your computer and do it - I&#039;d be too tired!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a stay at home mom and agree that either way you slice it (at home or at work), moms have long days.  I actually find that women are not very judgemental about whether you go back or stay at home and are actually very supportive of my choice and others.  Maybe I just have great friends and family.  But I digress&#8230;..As I read your post about collapsing in bed at the end of the day and checking our email/facebook/etc., I realized how nice it is that we can do this from our bed with our smartphones.  Imagine having to sit upright at your computer and do it &#8211; I&#8217;d be too tired!</p>
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		<title>By: shesaidhesaid</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2012 22:45:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[great post! I am not a mom myself, but I enjoyed reading what you had to say and your opinions, thoughts and funny moments. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;XO http://shesaidhesaid-fashion.blogspot.com]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>great post! I am not a mom myself, but I enjoyed reading what you had to say and your opinions, thoughts and funny moments. </p>
<p>XO <a href="http://shesaidhesaid-fashion.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://shesaidhesaid-fashion.blogspot.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Yandie, Goddess of Pickles.</title>
		<link>http://ideallyspeaking.ca/2012/09/i-am-working-mother-html/#comment-151</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Yandie, Goddess of Pickles.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2012 16:10:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m still waiting for that whole &#039;cleans up after themselves&#039; thing to kick in.  Just kidding, my girls are getting much better, but still require a lot of haranguing to put their stuff back where it goes.  Much easier now that more stuff actually has a place to go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The downside of them doing stuff for themselves is having to make sure they have actually done them.  Otherwise you get &quot;Did you make your lunch?&quot;  &quot;Yup&quot; Later: &quot;I&#039;m So Hungry! I didn&#039;t have any lunch!&quot;  It&#039;s hard not to fall into the its-easier-just-to-do-it-myself trap because then they just never learn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think in reference to the silly &#039;mommy wars&#039; employed mom might be more accurate, because every decent mom is a &quot;working&quot; mom.  If you&#039;re not working, you&#039;re probably doing it wrong.  (Or you&#039;re doing it very, very right.)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m still waiting for that whole &#8216;cleans up after themselves&#8217; thing to kick in.  Just kidding, my girls are getting much better, but still require a lot of haranguing to put their stuff back where it goes.  Much easier now that more stuff actually has a place to go.</p>
<p>The downside of them doing stuff for themselves is having to make sure they have actually done them.  Otherwise you get &#8220;Did you make your lunch?&#8221;  &#8220;Yup&#8221; Later: &#8220;I&#8217;m So Hungry! I didn&#8217;t have any lunch!&#8221;  It&#8217;s hard not to fall into the its-easier-just-to-do-it-myself trap because then they just never learn.</p>
<p>I think in reference to the silly &#8216;mommy wars&#8217; employed mom might be more accurate, because every decent mom is a &#8220;working&#8221; mom.  If you&#8217;re not working, you&#8217;re probably doing it wrong.  (Or you&#8217;re doing it very, very right.)</p>
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