Comments on: Goodbye Mama

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[…] or my heart, and I may or may not have recently had a stroke. As if that’s not enough, since losing Mom last summer, I’ve been battling depression again and haven’t been sleeping properly as a result. […]

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Lasting Friendships: Bonding at Blissdom - Ideally speaking... — Sat, 26 Sep 2015 18:45:34 +0000

[…] I had a reason to lean on this community more than I ever have before. The day we unexpectedly lost my Mama, some of the first and most heartfelt words I received were from my friends in the blogging and […]

By: Marg

Marg — Wed, 12 Aug 2015 04:53:36 +0000

Crystal … Your words are always so beautiful and touching. You were amazing on Saturday as well as Mark and Bob… You mom is gleaming with pride as she looks upon you and sees what a beautiful women you are and will continue to be. It is not easy to loose someone you love It leaves a constant ache in your heart. you have your beautiful memories and the teachings of your mom with you always . She will be your guardian angel and watch over all of you and you will feel her presence .. I feel Steve and Vavoo often and I go to them for advise or just to vent .. That may sound crazy to some but it’s soothing and therapeutic for me … Maybe you will do do the comfort too .. I am always here for you .. Love you always ❤️

By: Jenn

Jenn — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 19:31:30 +0000

Crystal,

It’s been nearly 2 years since I unexpectedly lost my mum. It changes everything. The hurt doesn’t go away, (or at least hasn’t for me) but some days are better than others. When it seems like the grief will swallow you whole, you’ll find an object or a memory that reminds you of her and makes your heart ache a little less. Take it one day at a time. Let yourself grieve and allow friends and family to help out. I’m so sorry for your loss.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 16:49:26 +0000

Crystal, I am so sorry to hear this terrible news Sending my love your way.

By: Doris

Doris — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 15:21:32 +0000

Beautiful Crystal as usual. I lost my mom 21 years ago and I still miss her and “talk” to her every day. Your words brought tears to my eyes. We are fortunate to have had deep relationships with our moms to cherish for our lifetime.
Do take care of yourself.

By: Sara

Sara — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 04:50:12 +0000

Crys, I am so sorry to read about the loss of your mama. I just lost my own mom two nights ago and came across your piece since I can’t sleep since it happened. I love what you wrote about her and how your family has been celebrating her life. Thank you for sharing this. Hugs and love to you.

By: Lauralee Proudfoot

Lauralee Proudfoot — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 03:40:47 +0000

I am so sorry for your loss

By: Jody

Jody — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 03:13:04 +0000

I’m sorry for your loss. There are no words that seem right at a time such as this. Thanks for sharing a glimpse of your mom with us.