Comments on: Open Letter to My Abuser: These are the lasting impacts of your actions. http://ideallyspeaking.ca/2016/11/open-letter-to-my-abuser-these-are-the-lasting-impact-of-your-actions/ Parenting and life in general from my point of view. Mildly naïve & wildly idealistic. Sat, 03 Jun 2017 06:18:24 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.0.38 By: Lesley Donaldson http://ideallyspeaking.ca/2016/11/open-letter-to-my-abuser-these-are-the-lasting-impact-of-your-actions/#comment-80867 Tue, 15 Nov 2016 16:50:52 +0000 http://ideallyspeaking.ca/?p=2223#comment-80867 There is no excuse for what this man did to you and your family. In your shoes, I would never forgive him either. You are not a lesser person for living with the aftermath of the trauma he put you though. You are not a lesser person for knowing and sharing that your every day is marked by his abuse.

You are “better” now not because you “get over it.” You are a better person for facing your abuse and abuser with bravery and, quite understandably anger. You are a better person by showing your daughters, and all of us, that this is not what children should live with.

You have earned every moment of fking awesomeness that I know you have worked hard to achieve.

]]> By: Christella http://ideallyspeaking.ca/2016/11/open-letter-to-my-abuser-these-are-the-lasting-impact-of-your-actions/#comment-80843 Mon, 14 Nov 2016 21:21:44 +0000 http://ideallyspeaking.ca/?p=2223#comment-80843 Love love love love love love love.
All the love in the world to you.

]]> By: Brent http://ideallyspeaking.ca/2016/11/open-letter-to-my-abuser-these-are-the-lasting-impact-of-your-actions/#comment-80841 Mon, 14 Nov 2016 19:48:05 +0000 http://ideallyspeaking.ca/?p=2223#comment-80841 I Love you so much, Crys!! This was beautiful.

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